The couple who lives to change!

Let me introduce you to Blessy, she is the sixth ‘child’ of Shibumon & Elizabeth, and sister to Blesson, ‘Blessy’ (the couple’s biological kids) and Pooja, Reetu & Reshma. Till few days back, she was another slum kid, abandoned by her mother even before she started speaking and kicked out off her home (if you call it so) by her relatives. Her father, a truck driver, who is rarely at home, could do nothing but witness this with teary eyes.  A seven year old kid, with dreams which she never thought would ever realize…she is Blessy.

I request you to take a moment and think about your childhood and that of Blessy’s. She is another normal kid who passed through abnormal circumstances. Today, Shibumon & Elizabeth is trying to provide her a life and realize her simple dream to live.

The hero & heroine of my post is this young couple. You can read about them here: The team behind Bharat Seva Samity – and their efforts to change the lives of the kids in Mandi gaon (on the border of Delhi & Gurgaon). Honestly, I don’t find myself eligible to speak about them.

When a good friend, a college senior & a serial entrepreneur, Vivek Jhorar, first asked me to join him to Mandi gaon – all i thought was about my negative bank balance and the amount i could donate to another NGO. But, hearing about this couple’s 13 odd year struggle to educate the kids of Sapera Basti (i prefer to call Mandi gaon) was an eye opener.

With a ‘more than enough’ five digit salary, i often cursed myself for the career blunders i made in my life. And here, Shibu & Elizabeth is sitting in their modest one bedroom home in Mandi gaon, telling me about their dreams to bring change in the lives of these kids, kids who otherwise would end up doing menial works or maybe, become anti-social elements. Shibu jokingly tells, “I can only follow Madam’s (Elizabeth) order” and laughs.

I looked at the kids and they remind me of an orphan who once asked me about my family and asked me to explain how my parents love me. He was sitting on the wall of an orphanage staring at mothers walking their kids, back home from school. I was a kid then and i cried while cycling back home. That day at Mandi gaon, i was a 27 year old and i silently wept while driving back home.

My learned friends speak about change, blame the system, call Delhi a rape capital…while having their share of imported alcohol, in an AC room. Today, snake lovers is asking the folks of Sapera Basti (meaning: the basti or slum of Snake Charmers) to stop doing the only job they know. They want to protect snakes, and i hope they do – but they are not interested in how folks in this slum will survive, let alone the kids.

And, here is a couple who left behind everything & everyone they have, traveled kilometers and days (it still takes almost 3 days to reach Delhi from Kerala), to ‘act’ for a change. I often wonder why Shibu wants to do this. He could pack his bags and move back to his parents house any day. Its his parents who support him and his cause, financially.

But Shibu wants to stay and be the change catalyst. His short term and long term goal is to find the right education for the other 42 kids whom he and his wife teach from their one room school (you can call it a shack) in Sapera Basti. Unlike the criticizing lot from my social circle and the wildlife activists trying to stop the slum-dwellers from performing the only job they know, Shibu and his wife wants to cultivate a young generation of civilized kids.

Every day, he struggles to meet the financial needs of his family and his mission. Every day he tries to educate the elders of Sapera Basti to take up a new & noble profession. Every day, he does what he and his wife have been doing for the past 13 years…to bring change in life. To spread  colours in otherwise dark minds. RANG DE!!!

I am lucky that i had to travel only few kilometres from where i dwell, few thousand kilometres from where i was born, to meet a couple who deserves a salute than most people i have known in my life.

“This is my entry for “Travel That Moved me” contest, in support of Rang de, conducted by desi Traveler  – See more about the contest here.

PS: The beautiful clicks apart from one with kids watching a movie is by Mridul Sharma…my sincere thanks to him for letting me use his clicks.

6 thoughts on “The couple who lives to change!

  1. Brother, this is just too inspirational!! Super liked… Well, though something personal but still I will say, I do not come from an educated family but my father always wanted me to get educated and rather above all be civilized not just become a dumb literate… I still remember when someone elder in the family used to ask my father to save something for his bank balance, he would smile, look at me and say “my kid is my bank balance, he will study well in life” …

    Those words never escaped my ears/thoughts when I used to study, though I could not do wonders with study but he is happy to see me civilized enough now… From ground zero I have seen so many transformations into my life or my parents lives, not sure what was childhood but yeah there was struggle all life but the sheer belief & vision of my father in getting me educated and making me a civilized person by any means, is something that has given me life…

    It is very easy to crib about things around but very difficult to change things… Had my father not brought a change in my family in getting me educated, I would have ended up a painter or by polished word ARTIST, though not a bad proposition you will say BUT I have seen the movie of an artist behind the scenes for almost 30 years now ;) …

    • yeah Punit, they are inspiring folks…Join me for a trip when you are here in Delhi.

      I am sure the kids would love to hear a ‘ghumakkar’s stories and would hopefully get inspired and work for a better destiny :)

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